Yesterday, went to meet up VDG Cliquefor singing session at Chevron. Unfortunately, some of them could not make it for the day. But still some of us made ourselves free for this gathering too.
Had a great chat with them and got to know that all of us are progressing smoothly in our career and studies.
And of course our girl's talk come first. Well, we are more concerned about how are we doing in our personal relationship with our boyfriend. Apple and XinHao actually came out a conclusion thatmajority of therelationship will be dying after a year. Mainly because of arguments or maybe they are too used to be with them. But for those who can last longer than a year are those who can last if they want to...
However, that does not mean after a few years, this couple will not break off. They might break off for certain reasons. Most common ones are feelings faded. But I guess most likely in a long term relationship, feelings will fade at certain point of time. However, if one think that once feeling starts to fade will come to the end of the relationship, I guess in the first place they shouldn't had started. Because NO relationship will stay 100 years in honeymoon.Even They are given 100 women or men to spend their life with, they will still broke off someday. Am I right to say so? In long term relationship, what we can see is commitment, commitmentand still commitment.
Feeling fades in each and every relationships. Why some of the couple can last? Because of the responsibilities and commitment they put in. Women should do their part as a wife or girlfriend. While Men should do their part too.
For 2 person to come together or say to meet, its not easy. Well, life is not a circle but a straight line. Life won't repeat. So Treasure. Feelings faded so? Who can guarantee that couple that had married for 20 years still love each other? Well, maybe some do... but at least they cherish and believe what that had chosen in the first place. Which was when they say "Yes, I do". There is when they must be responsible for what they say...
Likewise for unmarried couples.Things that gone out of track, can be mended sometimes. Don't give up so easily. Like I said, for 2 to come together is not as easy as what we think. It's about give and take...
My dad told me before... "If you want to go into relationship, make sure it last. Argument is a very common thing that occurred very often. But as long as it's not regarding unfaithful stuff, every things can be settle under the sun."
"Mum and me do argues at times. But we close one eyes for certain stuff." He added.
Its often a win-lose situation. But a win-lose situation can save a further arguments. But still, it will be good if its a win-win situations.
Let me intro my Singing Kakis =)
From the left:
MeiMei, Me, Apple, Josh, Quan Tien, XinHao
They come in package.
The 3 of us still... THE STEADY POM BEE BEE WOMEN... haha!
Haha! I asked Dear whether he will angry with this photo... He say no... Unless Apple is a man. But too bad she is not haha!
I have to say this... I found out that Dear's friend who is from his Hall, look like 许佳瑩
Whereas I felt that Apple look like 许佳瑩 too.
Most probably is because of their cheeks?
Oh ya. MeiMei, Apple and I went over to Bugis for steamboat after singing. We cabbed down and MeiMei paid for the Cab fare. Wa $18 plus. So expensive!
After steamboat, MeiMei paid for the cab fare again to send us home. $36.40. OMG!
Reach home around 4.30am le. Dear had already slept like a piggy haha!
Singing session with my Polytechnic classmates. Haha! Miss Connie had been craving for singing. We had a meet up at Ehub! to sing lurh. Alot of them could not make it for the day but still we enjoyed ourselves very much =)
This is WeiTing, Connie and myself.
She is the snow white in our class... Super fair skin tone... I LIKE!
I consider myself as fair... My boyfriend consider me as very fair... He said you are "Super White"
See he so rude LOL!
Anyway, I'm always have the most fair skin tone in my class until I met Connie. She is fairer than me =/
Planned to go Ice Skating at 1 pm today. But Elaine said that she don't want to go. So yea, I thought I would be staying at home for the whole day.
However, Elaine called at 5 pm and said that she wanna go Ice Skating. Wa... I changed and we made our way down to Kallang Leisure Park. Well, unfortunately there is Ice hockey training for today. Elaine were upset that we are unable to skate for the day.
We went to Kbox after all. Sang till 10 pm and we went over to Boon Lay Market for our dinner. Alright, I know I sound a bit funny for having dinner at this particular timing. In fact, it's really our dinner for the day. LOL!
After that I packed 2 packet of Fried Kuey Teow for Dear and his roommate. Went over to find them after I send Elaine home.
Yesterday, went to meet up VDG Cliquefor singing session at Chevron. Unfortunately, some of them could not make it for the day. But still some of us made ourselves free for this gathering too.
Had a great chat with them and got to know that all of us are progressing smoothly in our career and studies.
And of course our girl's talk come first. Well, we are more concerned about how are we doing in our personal relationship with our boyfriend. Apple and XinHao actually came out a conclusion thatmajority of therelationship will be dying after a year. Mainly because of arguments or maybe they are too used to be with them. But for those who can last longer than a year are those who can last if they want to...
However, that does not mean after a few years, this couple will not break off. They might break off for certain reasons. Most common ones are feelings faded. But I guess most likely in a long term relationship, feelings will fade at certain point of time. However, if one think that once feeling starts to fade will come to the end of the relationship, I guess in the first place they shouldn't had started. Because NO relationship will stay 100 years in honeymoon.Even They are given 100 women or men to spend their life with, they will still broke off someday. Am I right to say so? In long term relationship, what we can see is commitment, commitmentand still commitment.
Feeling fades in each and every relationships. Why some of the couple can last? Because of the responsibilities and commitment they put in. Women should do their part as a wife or girlfriend. While Men should do their part too.
For 2 person to come together or say to meet, its not easy. Well, life is not a circle but a straight line. Life won't repeat. So Treasure. Feelings faded so? Who can guarantee that couple that had married for 20 years still love each other? Well, maybe some do... but at least they cherish and believe what that had chosen in the first place. Which was when they say "Yes, I do". There is when they must be responsible for what they say...
Likewise for unmarried couples.Things that gone out of track, can be mended sometimes. Don't give up so easily. Like I said, for 2 to come together is not as easy as what we think. It's about give and take...
My dad told me before... "If you want to go into relationship, make sure it last. Argument is a very common thing that occurred very often. But as long as it's not regarding unfaithful stuff, every things can be settle under the sun."
"Mum and me do argues at times. But we close one eyes for certain stuff." He added.
Its often a win-lose situation. But a win-lose situation can save a further arguments. But still, it will be good if its a win-win situations.
Let me intro my Singing Kakis =)
From the left:
MeiMei, Me, Apple, Josh, Quan Tien, XinHao
They come in package.
The 3 of us still... THE STEADY POM BEE BEE WOMEN... haha!
Haha! I asked Dear whether he will angry with this photo... He say no... Unless Apple is a man. But too bad she is not haha!
I have to say this... I found out that Dear's friend who is from his Hall, look like 许佳瑩
Whereas I felt that Apple look like 许佳瑩 too.
Most probably is because of their cheeks?
Oh ya. MeiMei, Apple and I went over to Bugis for steamboat after singing. We cabbed down and MeiMei paid for the Cab fare. Wa $18 plus. So expensive!
After steamboat, MeiMei paid for the cab fare again to send us home. $36.40. OMG!
Reach home around 4.30am le. Dear had already slept like a piggy haha!
Singing session with my Polytechnic classmates. Haha! Miss Connie had been craving for singing. We had a meet up at Ehub! to sing lurh. Alot of them could not make it for the day but still we enjoyed ourselves very much =)
This is WeiTing, Connie and myself.
She is the snow white in our class... Super fair skin tone... I LIKE!
I consider myself as fair... My boyfriend consider me as very fair... He said you are "Super White"
See he so rude LOL!
Anyway, I'm always have the most fair skin tone in my class until I met Connie. She is fairer than me =/
Planned to go Ice Skating at 1 pm today. But Elaine said that she don't want to go. So yea, I thought I would be staying at home for the whole day.
However, Elaine called at 5 pm and said that she wanna go Ice Skating. Wa... I changed and we made our way down to Kallang Leisure Park. Well, unfortunately there is Ice hockey training for today. Elaine were upset that we are unable to skate for the day.
We went to Kbox after all. Sang till 10 pm and we went over to Boon Lay Market for our dinner. Alright, I know I sound a bit funny for having dinner at this particular timing. In fact, it's really our dinner for the day. LOL!
After that I packed 2 packet of Fried Kuey Teow for Dear and his roommate. Went over to find them after I send Elaine home.
` 1996-2001 Corporation Primary School
` 2002-2005 Hua Yi Secondary School
` 2006-2006 Clementi ITE (Nitec in Retail Management)
` 2007-2008 Simei ITE (Higher Nitec in Accounting)
` 2009-2012 Temasek Polytechnic (Accounting and Finance)
` 2012-???? University of London-SIM (Accounting and Finance)
I LOVE...
` My Myself, Dad, Brother, Hadi, Family and Friends
` I DISLIKE...
` Smoke from Cigarette. I don't like the pungent smell
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