This few days some views to share too. However, I'm too lazy to blog it out. All I do this few days was just going out, studying, do housework, cook, surfing net, watching drama and blog jumping.
Alright, lets get to the point...
In life there are lots of hatred among people like us. People might dislike you for who you are. What you had done. But everything comes with a reason. It might be reasonable reasons or maybe a unreasonable ones.
Don't be worried when you found a particular person or group dislike you. By all means, it might be their problems or it might be other factors leading them to the direction of hating you. It could be jealously? Misunderstanding? Peer influences?
All I can say misunderstanding contributed most towards hatred. However, you can't underestimate the power of "words-of-mouth" ripple effect. Which means, words passing down the road might turn out differently from the first person who said it. Power? I guess so.
However, if you foundsecond person or second groupof people from the different category of the first group who dislike you, I guess one should reflect him or herself by questioning themselves what had you done that made people dislike you. Alternatively, ask your best friend to tell you more about yourself. From there, reflection might occurred. However, don't be so hard on the advise that your best friend give. They don't owe you anything too.
I came by an incident 3-4 years back. I told my friend honestly that there are a number of people who dislike him. Apparently I can observe myself by how he behave and the other few parties had told me regarding this matter. I'm aware of it. I brought it out to him and told him that it time to ask himself what can he do to make himself a better person. And what makes his friend drifting away from him. Well, out of what I expect, his reply was just "Stop, Saying that my friend dislike me". Well, this driven an argument again. zzz!
I do know it's an impact to him. But he just do not realized that people around him are not being able to adapt to his behaviours. Since it is so, I stopped telling him as and when things goes wrong. As a friend, we shall let him have his way if he choose to be so. What a friend can do is always limited. Is all about himself and the only person who can help, is himself too.Different people have different point of view and turning point.
Anyway for my regular reader, sorry for the late update =) However, if you want to be inform on my updates, do email me your email to a.siimple.liife@hotmail.com. I will including you into my update mailing list. Any new update you can view it just through your very own email =)
For people who know me, Msn me or sms me will do =)
This few days some views to share too. However, I'm too lazy to blog it out. All I do this few days was just going out, studying, do housework, cook, surfing net, watching drama and blog jumping.
Alright, lets get to the point...
In life there are lots of hatred among people like us. People might dislike you for who you are. What you had done. But everything comes with a reason. It might be reasonable reasons or maybe a unreasonable ones.
Don't be worried when you found a particular person or group dislike you. By all means, it might be their problems or it might be other factors leading them to the direction of hating you. It could be jealously? Misunderstanding? Peer influences?
All I can say misunderstanding contributed most towards hatred. However, you can't underestimate the power of "words-of-mouth" ripple effect. Which means, words passing down the road might turn out differently from the first person who said it. Power? I guess so.
However, if you foundsecond person or second groupof people from the different category of the first group who dislike you, I guess one should reflect him or herself by questioning themselves what had you done that made people dislike you. Alternatively, ask your best friend to tell you more about yourself. From there, reflection might occurred. However, don't be so hard on the advise that your best friend give. They don't owe you anything too.
I came by an incident 3-4 years back. I told my friend honestly that there are a number of people who dislike him. Apparently I can observe myself by how he behave and the other few parties had told me regarding this matter. I'm aware of it. I brought it out to him and told him that it time to ask himself what can he do to make himself a better person. And what makes his friend drifting away from him. Well, out of what I expect, his reply was just "Stop, Saying that my friend dislike me". Well, this driven an argument again. zzz!
I do know it's an impact to him. But he just do not realized that people around him are not being able to adapt to his behaviours. Since it is so, I stopped telling him as and when things goes wrong. As a friend, we shall let him have his way if he choose to be so. What a friend can do is always limited. Is all about himself and the only person who can help, is himself too.Different people have different point of view and turning point.
Anyway for my regular reader, sorry for the late update =) However, if you want to be inform on my updates, do email me your email to a.siimple.liife@hotmail.com. I will including you into my update mailing list. Any new update you can view it just through your very own email =)
For people who know me, Msn me or sms me will do =)
` 1996-2001 Corporation Primary School
` 2002-2005 Hua Yi Secondary School
` 2006-2006 Clementi ITE (Nitec in Retail Management)
` 2007-2008 Simei ITE (Higher Nitec in Accounting)
` 2009-2012 Temasek Polytechnic (Accounting and Finance)
` 2012-???? University of London-SIM (Accounting and Finance)
I LOVE...
` My Myself, Dad, Brother, Hadi, Family and Friends
` I DISLIKE...
` Smoke from Cigarette. I don't like the pungent smell
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