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TaiWee's Birthday Celebration @ St James PowerHouse

Saturday, February 6, 2010

TaiWee's Birthday Celebration at PowerHouse!

Well, last night I went to Angel's house overnight. Today we headed back to my house and get ourselves prepared before we go Vivocity to meet the rest!

Nothing much about today... As we all know clubs are just clubs... All are humans dancing and drinking here and there.

Anyway, just happened that my brother are also going to PowerHouse today. So they shared table with us. He brought a bunch of men. Haha...! I noticed Darren since he was just right behind of my brother. They are all my brother's secondary school friend. So we knew each other back when I was "So Called" Young. So I was like "Hey~~! You are here too! long time no see!"

Then my brother was like leading them to go and buy Tower Beer. After they left, Dear whisper in my ear... "Eh your brother got a friend super handsome! Like those singer that type of looks and body"

I'm like... "HUH!! WHERE? WHERE? WHY NEVER TELL ME EARLIER?" *Okay just kidding with my sweetheart as he knew that I'm kidding too*

When my brother is heading back to our table, I asked Dear who is the handsome guy that he just mention...

Than I told my brother that HanQin says that one of his friend are very GOOS LOOKING! LIKE SINGER THOSE TYPE!

MY BROTHER WAS LIKE "SHIHAO LA!!!"

My reaction was like "OH IS YOU!!?!?!"

Dear was like "You know him?!??!"

Yea! they are all my brother's classmates and they came to our house for countless times, I answered.

All I remembered was... ShiHao was a very very chubby guy when he was young. Just like the "Terry" in the movie of I'm Not Stupid. Now!! He look fit and got a look just like XIAO ZHU!

Anyway some photo taken before we went for the club!

BIG MOUTH MAN!!

He never failed to put on a smile on my face daily!

Overall, I'm happy with him. =)

25th April is coming soon. Hopefully I can update the summarized story of us throughout this 1 year!

As close friend knows...

I celebrate 1st Month Anniversary, followed by 1st Year, 2nd Year and this goes on...

I don't emphasize on the the celebration of months by months. Maybe to my point of view, what we should be looking forward to is Years... Not months.

When we both started, Dear always question me or to be said that he apologized that he never celebrate 2nd month anniversary with me. Well, my reply was simple... Relationship is not about months but years... As long as You do remembered, just wish me and it will be just alright for me =)

I know Dear thought that I belongs to those who really looking into details of such stuff. Never knew, we got the same thoughts that Years are what we looking forward to =)

And If I'm gonna rate my current relationship, we are doing great. I won't deny that we never had arguments. However, arguments do lead to positive outcome too. Unless, both can sort things out nicely and comply to one and other. But most importantly, both parties must be reasonable I guess. Dear is reasonable and understanding, at least I know, he is not over possessive. Because I don't like. I prefer possessive boyfriend. Moderate possessiveness are great for me. Just like Dear. I prefer it this way. Possessive in a reasonable ways. He, indeed is a very understanding boyfriend.

I do have friend who have over-possessive partners. Some are doing great but some are not. Doing great ones are those who can comply to the over-possessive parties. However, not doing great ones, all I can say is that they have to comply to them most of the time because over-possessive parties view stuff differently from neutral parties.

Good news is... if you get used to them, relationship will definitely last, if relationship still wavering on the question on his or her over-possessiveness, and even talked things out nothing goes right(all the time), as time goes by, things will starts to get agitated.

However, in my point of view, possessive are harmless but over-possessive are harmful

I guess most of us will be categorized as possessive whereby minority will be over-possessive.

Possessive type is hard to define because its too general in some sense. As simple is to be said... People who care on common(reasonable) things that what a couple will care.

Over-Possessive is easier to define. All in one to be say is that they care for things that are common(reasonable) and those non-common(unreasonable) things in a relationship. You can say they are more precise, YES! I agree! and they do care a lot =) and some may like the way they handle things.

But it's unreasonable, so majority of them will imply negative view on Over-Possessive parties.

Haha never knew I written such a long entry. But Dear, just to let you know, you are categorized as reasonable possessiveness. I never disagreed on stuff that you controlled or to be said that you are really concern about the issue. Because it's reasonable =) And I'm happy!

I will only be rebellious when I feel is unreasonable. And I know so far we are doing great. When disagreement comes in, even it started with earthquake, and it will slowly taper off. No matter how long we took to salvage the argument, at least we tried. I can't predict how far we can go, at least I know what I want in this relationship.

Because we had already made it here... and I'm serious =)

We went to the club!! people will start questioning!!!! My Dear will allow me to go club? Of course not! I bound myself to go club too. Because as someone with boyfriend, I will not go club. Unless Dear goes with me. Even though it's TaiWee's birthday, if Dear not going with me, I wouldn't go too Vice Visa. TaiWee should thanks HanQin that he made himself available "for him" =x

I got wear shorts!!! my shirt so long yet so short! Haha!

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